Comments on: Moving out with out telling hubby? http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/ practice of managing the flow of information between an organization and its publics. Fri, 04 Feb 2011 20:12:34 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Starla_C http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-816 Starla_C Fri, 15 Jan 2010 19:32:03 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-816 You take that child out of state and you are going to have one heck of a time trying to get custody! CONSULT AN ATTORNEY NOW! You take that child out of state and you are going to have one heck of a time trying to get custody! CONSULT AN ATTORNEY NOW!

]]> By: Fishgutts http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-815 Fishgutts Wed, 13 Jan 2010 23:43:48 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-815 The state of Texas will not allow you once you are divorced to move with your child back to NJ. The state of Texas will not allow you once you are divorced to move with your child back to NJ.

]]> By: Quasimodo1957 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-814 Quasimodo1957 Mon, 11 Jan 2010 07:40:06 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-814 LOL....tests video games? Buys a 'Stang without telling you? Mid-life crisis or a jerk? Both it seems. Um....you may want to hightail it to Joisey with the kid and file for a divorce. Might want a restraining order post-haste as well. The threatening remark is enough to secure one. "Course he says this because child support will rear it's ugly head....I'm sure it isn't because he plans to raise the kid in a parental and loving fashion. So...you're not an idiot for your college and job....just an idiot if you decide to hang around in this relationship. besides...you picked a fine time to head home...it's getting damn cold this neck of the woods now. LOL….tests video games? Buys a ‘Stang without telling you? Mid-life crisis or a jerk? Both it seems.
Um….you may want to hightail it to Joisey with the kid and file for a divorce. Might want a restraining order post-haste as well. The threatening remark is enough to secure one. “Course he says this because child support will rear it’s ugly head….I’m sure it isn’t because he plans to raise the kid in a parental and loving fashion.
So…you’re not an idiot for your college and job….just an idiot if you decide to hang around in this relationship.
besides…you picked a fine time to head home…it’s getting damn cold this neck of the woods now.

]]> By: Dovie http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-813 Dovie Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:52:40 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-813 You don't NEED his permission to divorce him. Yes, you can take your daughter with you, although he would be entitled to see her for visitation and you would likley have to pay and escort her one way to visit him with him paying the other way to get her back to you. You definitely need to see a lawyer for a free consultation as to how and in what order to accomplish your goals. You don’t NEED his permission to divorce him. Yes, you can take your daughter with you, although he would be entitled to see her for visitation and you would likley have to pay and escort her one way to visit him with him paying the other way to get her back to you. You definitely need to see a lawyer for a free consultation as to how and in what order to accomplish your goals.

]]> By: jeter2 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-812 jeter2 Sat, 09 Jan 2010 18:17:52 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-812 If you take your daughter away especially to another state without telling your husband he can press kidnapping charges on you and you will probably never get custody of your daughter. You need to contact the police and tell them that he threatened you and have them tell you what actions you need to take about getting your divorce. If you take your daughter away especially to another state without telling your husband he can press kidnapping charges on you and you will probably never get custody of your daughter. You need to contact the police and tell them that he threatened you and have them tell you what actions you need to take about getting your divorce.

]]> By: Miss k http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-811 Miss k Sat, 09 Jan 2010 14:57:39 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-811 No respect! Have you gone to marriage counseling? No respect! Have you gone to marriage counseling?

]]> By: skizzle-d-wizzle http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-810 skizzle-d-wizzle Sat, 09 Jan 2010 14:52:53 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-810 Well you have one of two things to do here--Tell him strait up your marriage is on the brink of destruction and you need to seek professional help-(that way a third party can possibly get thru to him about your sadness in his behavior) or second just plan a trip to visit your parents (that's what you tell him) and then just don't come back--you can in the mean time start shipping some of your most prized possessions to them and even clothes just not stuff he will notice missing--prior to leaving file for a legal separation and if you have to get a restraining order--you will need to talk to the judge to explain that he has threatened your life if you leave--and that he is allowing your daughter to be present while he watches porn---Just you will have to be very careful while you are planning this if you really think he is capable of harming you--- God Bless you on a road unknown-- Well you have one of two things to do here–Tell him strait up your marriage is on the brink of destruction and you need to seek professional help-(that way a third party can possibly get thru to him about your sadness in his behavior) or second just plan a trip to visit your parents (that’s what you tell him) and then just don’t come back–you can in the mean time start shipping some of your most prized possessions to them and even clothes just not stuff he will notice missing–prior to leaving file for a legal separation and if you have to get a restraining order–you will need to talk to the judge to explain that he has threatened your life if you leave–and that he is allowing your daughter to be present while he watches porn—Just you will have to be very careful while you are planning this if you really think he is capable of harming you—
God Bless you on a road unknown–

]]> By: sewwoodyou http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-809 sewwoodyou Thu, 07 Jan 2010 01:34:55 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-809 Get to an attorney FAST.. divorce is in your future. Start documenting "everything".. every cruel word he says to you.. How much time he spends watching ****.. the *** thing alone would constitute "mental cruelty" in most states... You are in the drivers seat on this one unless you leave and run away... you could loose the custody of your child if he divorces you while you are in NJ. See your marital residence is in TX. Hope this helps GOOD LUCK BE WITH YOU Get to an attorney FAST.. divorce is in your future. Start documenting “everything”.. every cruel word he says to you.. How much time he spends watching ****.. the *** thing alone would constitute “mental cruelty” in most states…

You are in the drivers seat on this one unless you leave and run away… you could loose the custody of your child if he divorces you while you are in NJ. See your marital residence is in TX.

Hope this helps
GOOD LUCK BE WITH YOU

]]> By: Somebuddy http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-808 Somebuddy Mon, 04 Jan 2010 07:33:41 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-808 Well technically I don't think it would be illegal but you should probablly go to the police station and ask before you decide to bail. It's both of your's child and there's not a joint-custody thing so neither one of you have any more control than the other. Unless one of you fight for custody you could technically go away for months and say it was a vacation then file for divorce and try to get custody then.. Normally I would say that you don't have the right to take your daughter away but you make your husband sound like a sleeze and I say go for it! Definately don't mention anything to him about it and while you're getting your things out you might want to have a police officer escort you. Well technically I don’t think it would be illegal but you should probablly go to the police station and ask before you decide to bail. It’s both of your’s child and there’s not a joint-custody thing so neither one of you have any more control than the other. Unless one of you fight for custody you could technically go away for months and say it was a vacation then file for divorce and try to get custody then.. Normally I would say that you don’t have the right to take your daughter away but you make your husband sound like a sleeze and I say go for it! Definately don’t mention anything to him about it and while you’re getting your things out you might want to have a police officer escort you.

]]> By: Iqbal http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/comment-page-1/#comment-807 Iqbal Mon, 04 Jan 2010 05:23:22 +0000 http://publicrelations.autoresponder4you.com/2009/12/18/moving-out-with-out-telling-hubby/#comment-807 You can not walk away and take the daughter with you, if you ever did that , then you may not be able to get the custody in case of a divorce. Consult a lawyer immediately , and tell him everything about him. do not take the law in your hands. You can not walk away and take the daughter with you, if you ever did that , then you may not be able to get the custody in case of a divorce. Consult a lawyer immediately , and tell him everything about him. do not take the law in your hands.

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